i stay wid a colleague of mine.she's so damn self-obsessed.everything has to be just about her.all she talks about is her boyfriend and their plans together.i.e if she ever talks at all.most of the time she's on the phone or online.i mean it's okay,man......it's her life, her relationship..but then why bug others(me in this case) with every intricate detail of her so-committed life. it also doesnt help that i have had a very bad track record in this regard, and even if it's unintentional, it somehow pinches me about how extremely hopeless i am.............. heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp!!